Are the people you spend the most time with vastly different than you? Or much the same?
Same? No surprise!
We feel instantly connected to people who share the same tangibles. What we can see, hear and feel… birthplace and cities we lived in, schools we attended, our occupations. And experiences, such as vacations, books, movies, concerts, sporting events. Go Jets go!
Tangibles influence who we choose to hang with.
When we set an intention to find a new partner or friend we consciously know what tangibles to watch and listen for. The more boxes we tick, the more connected we feel.
Secretly, under the radar, our unconscious instincts are noticing intangibles. What is not easily seen, heard or felt…and also NOT so easily talked about – values, beliefs, and mindsets.
Intangibles influence who we are authentically …so when it comes to choosing a life partner, intangibles are truly the secrets to our health and happiness.
A woman came to me for coaching as her relationship with her life partner was faltering. She chose her partner based on having many of the same tangible preferences. They rarely disagreed or fell out as they enjoyed a highly active lifestyle, successful careers, travel. What she had not paid attention to was their vastly different intangibles. Their values, beliefs and mindsets were not aligned. However, their tangibles were so aligned, they managed to successfully dance around their misaligned intangibles for decades. One day she woke up with a deep sense of discontent. She sensed something was missing. With my coaching support, she went on a journey to discover who she truly was, what really mattered to her. Discovering who she was, empowered her to make significant changes in her relationship. She is now enjoying a healthy and happy life!
Self-mastery is knowing your intangibles…and having the skills to uncover others. If not, you might end up living your life dancing with people who are not aligned with what is really important to you.
“The purpose of our lives is to be happy.” ~ Dalai Lama
If you feel something is missing in your life it could be you are not clear on your intangibles – your values, beliefs, and mindsets. There’s no better time than now to take action on something so important to your health and happiness.
NOW is your best time to make an investment in YOU!
Discover who you really are so you can make authentic choices in your life.
Join me! The next NLP Practitioner Certification training starts June 2nd, 2018.
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Supporting you to start living your dream, and the dream beyond the dream!
Jacquie Nagy is an International Certified Neuro Linguistic Programming [NLP] New Code NLP TRAINER & Coach, Professional Speaker, Certified Adult Educator [CAE], Art of Feminine Presence™ Teacher, founder Holistic Directions Inc. 2008.
She is the creator of Holistic Self-Coaching™ and Dream Beyond the Dream©.
Jacquie offers personal and professional development workshops, NLP Certification courses and classes, private 1:1 and group coaching and mentoring for individuals and entrepreneurs internationally and in her home city of Winnipeg, MB, Canada. You can find out more about her speaking, coaching and training services at http://www.holisticdirections.com
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