How Did You Get Started With Holistic Directions?
My journey to Holistic Directions probably involves lots of things in common with you. Things don’t just happen overnight and I went through a lot of pain to get to the place I am at now – but it was worth it.
Without a college certificate or university degree I had to work harder than my peers to prove my abilities, gain credibility and receive the promotions I wanted in my career. I also had to learn additional soft skills on my own to survive in a highly competitive corporate world. Add that I was a single mother raising my son on my own after my first husband nearly burned down the house we lived in, I often felt very scared and alone. And many days my self esteem was low and I lacked self confidence and had a lot of limiting beliefs about my abilities to succeed.
However, I was determined and tenacious and wanted to set an example to my son that he could follow and aspire to. I wanted to know what was ‘the difference that made the difference’ in the people that were more successful then their peers who had similar qualifications, talents and abilities.
By this time I was re-married and was also integrating into my husband’s family and meeting his friends. Being a shy person I wanted to learn skills to manage any social situation, to carry on a conversation without stumbling on my words, and to enjoy meeting new people instead of being scared and nervous.
I invested $1000’s in many self-help books and audio cassettes and took several personal development courses. I learned tools that with training and practice I began to overcome many of my personal and work challenges. I felt more self assured and started doing presentations at work.
And I took the initiate to approach people I didn’t know at social events. Yet I still didn’t feel I had the level of confidence I really wanted. The relationships with my family were still stressing me out and I wasn’t enjoying special occasions like the Holidays like I wanted to.And still…. something was missing.
It was about that time that I was invited to attend a conference in England. One of the extra options to attend was a seminar introducing Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) – the title alone was enough to tickle my curiosity and I readily signed up.
That was the beginning of a wonderful journey of self discovery, learning and personal development at a level that I had never experienced at any time in my life… I got to rub shoulders actually with John Grinder and that started to completely change my life.
As a result, I decided to start my own business as an NLP trainer and Coach and I continue to learn about myself and discover how to apply NLP to improve my own life every day since.
I Don’t Even Know If I Need Any NLP?
The beauty with NLP is that it works on both extremes.
It works if you want to deal with something that is effecting your life – like not feeling good enough and lacking in self confidence, or finding that people around you aren’t valuing your time, or perhaps the relationships in your life aren’t improving as time goes on (or even getting worse). Maybe you have irritating habits or even phobias you want to shift – then NLP can help you.
At the other end of the scale you might be feeling like you want to lift your game. Perhaps you want to become an expert communicator and influencer – being able to get instant rapport with people. Or maybe you want to accelerate your personal power, growth and performance in all areas of your life to create unstoppable momentum in the achievement of your life…. Then NLP can help you achieve those aspirations – fast and effectively.
If you keep doing the same things you will keep getting the same results… if you want to start making changes quickly and easily then NLP will facilitate that.
What Is The Complete Life Success System?
The Complete Life Success System is the fundamental foundations to putting in place the life that you want to live – confidence, relationships, achieving value-driven personal and professional goals that accelerate your personal power, growth and performance, influence and excellent rapport with others and eliminating any internal conflicts so you can live the life you dream of.
Step 1. Change State – Change Behaviour
There’s an abundance of behaviour modification practices and tools available in the market these days .. and .. for the most part they do work – with a lot of effort, considerable discipline, and time .. you can change anything you like.
Maybe you have tried traditional methods and didn’t get the change of behaviour you wanted – or the change happened but it didn’t stick – the Complete Life Success System will help make the change happen with less effort and pain, and the big bonus is that change will happen and for a long time.
Step 2. Success Mindset
If you have been around me a while especially if you receive my FREE newsletter you will have heard about the importance of having a mindset that you are good enough, that you have all the resources you need to be successful and if you can hold constant really positive thoughts you will overcome obstacles and succeed – one way is using the law of attraction.
Positive thinking is not always effective as it can be really hard to change patterns of thinking simply because it takes effort, time and discipline and most people do not have an abundance of any of these in their busy lives. Using a simple and easy process and knowing what you really want, defining your intention for what’s important you can combat all negative thoughts and make sure you get out of your own way.
Step. 3 Eliminate All Limiting Beliefs
A limiting belief originates with a thought that typically starts off with a “I can’t” followed by a vision or feeling of whatever the action, activity or task is… “I can’t get that job”, “I can’t have a great relationship any more”. Or maybe all you want is to be free from the shackles that you feel are holding you back and yet you don’t believe you have the skills, strength and courage to take a risk and make a major change in your life and business.
Really when it all comes down to it, all you really need to do to change a limiting belief is first decide what it is that you really, really want to have happen, and after a number of other steps you will sweep these limiting belief’s away from your mind and go and get what it is you can really achieve.
Imagine the possibilities of changing a limiting belief!!!
Step 4. Crush Stress & Overwhelm
Feelings of overwhelm, left unchecked can stop you in your tracks and leave you feeling frustrated, annoyed, impatient and can impact your whole system including your ability to think clearly and to maintain your state. Over time these feelings of overwhelm add up to create a stress response.
By getting in touch with the feelings inside your body that are trying to tell you something, and taking a few seconds to pay attention to them, the feelings will shift following you making a physical shift combined with you reminding yourself what it is you really want – what is your intention.
Step 5. Instant Confidence You Can Rely On
There’s not many things in the world you can do well without having a level of confidence, is there? Sometimes we get side tracked in our ability to develop confidence because of our beliefs. You may have heard the saying, ‘If you believe you can or can’t, you’re right’. Yet, in reality whether you can or can’t may have nothing to do with believing – it may have everything to do with you having confidence.
Well have no fear! Confidence is nearer than you think. There are many processes in the Complete Life Success System that you can use to regain your confidence for something you know you’ve done before and for whatever reason you’ve lost it – or – you want to take a risk and feel you have everything in place to be successful and having confidence would really motivate you to take action and as a coach I will show you how to access these quickly and easily.
Step 6. Influence & Language Mastery
Powerful – is a word that comes to mind when I think of the benefits of knowing how to utilize language as a tool to help and influence others. To be absolutely clear, the word powerful does not mean you have power over any one else. What it means to have these language tools is to help you understand yourself, communicate the way you want, gain clarity and get results.
You will learn language patterns and you will begin to pick up the ones that are not resourceful in your own language. You will also notice that other people use patterns in their language that stop them from taking action. And you will begin to develop the skill to go past just identifying the patterns and you will start to challenge the language to break up the parts that are keeping you stuck, and open up the doors to what is possible.
Step 7. Rocket Your Relationship Success
To have balanced relationships in your life you need to know exactly who you are. This is apparent when you are completely confident with yourself, knowing who you are and what you want. And To have balanced relationships you also need to have the skill to quickly understand others.
Understanding others positions in a relationship is a highly effective tool to resolve conflict and gain consensus. When you have consensus it leads to more harmonious relations. When relationships are in harmony communicating becomes collaborative. There is a powerful technique which you can utilize in any situation that can give you this perception and understanding in all your relationships.
Step 8. Accelerated Personal Power
Having power over your own life can be exhilarating. Yet so many people still don’t know how or what to put into action in order to create the life they really want.
When you begin to using the Complete Life Success System in your life to overcome limiting beliefs, create resourceful states, bust stress and crush overwhelm, have instant confidence and relationships that rock… it starts to add up and accumulate into having the high quality of life that you want.
Step 9. Getting What You Want
This is possibly the most important step and one that people forget to do.
You also need to find out what you don’t want. Because when you know what you don’t want you can recognize yourself doing things that are only going to get you more of what you don’t want and not to where you want to be.
To balance this out you also must know what you DO want. So that when anything that looks, sounds or feels like you DO want comes into your grasp you can take action and get it. And if it’s an opportunity that will get you more of what you want you will take it.
In the Complete Life Success System you will identify both what you want and don’t want at a deeper level than you currently know which will give you the basis of what success means in your life.
Step 10. Total Life Satisfaction
Did you ever think that you can have total life satisfaction? Is it realistic to expect that your life will always be totally satisfying. The answer is yes and I’ll tell you why. You are perfect as you are. You have all the resources you need to be happy and live the life you want already stored inside you. You know what you want. And you have the skills to make it happen.
Discovering your highest level intention it may become the most rewarding thing in your life. This is what when the chips are down all you need to do is think of your highest level intention and you can re-set the direction your going.
Step 11. Love – The Model of Excellence
Ultimately you are going to have such clarity of who you are, of what you want, and of what your highest intention for living is ..that nothing can get in your way. When you use these tools you can start to figure out some of what’s holding you back. You will start getting the results you want. Your actions will become more authentic, and in line with who you are and where you want to go in life. You will love yourself, and have an abundance of love flowing out to others … With a new understanding of empathy, compassion, and forgiveness that will lead to compelling relationships.
You are a model of excellence for your family, the community you live in and the world!
When you use these tools on a daily basis, you will not only live the dream…. You will discover what’s on the other side of your dream where your highest intentions reside for you to enjoy life and be truly happy!
What Type of People Will The Complete Life Success System Work With?
Well the answer to that question is everybody. We all go through peaks and troughs in life and most of us want to improve or take our lives to another level. One of my big aha moments I had was that we didn’t need to just be ok with the day to day lives that we lead if we didn’t want to…. And we with small changes we can make big differences.
In my quest to providing the best services I wanted to focus on a particular group of people that aligned with myself so I decided to work with women who were age between 35 and 65 – as I have the most synigy with them.
So if you are women aged 35-65 who either wants to shift something you are not happy in your life, or make some changes with the way you are and the life you are living with or perhaps you want to lift your game to the next level then the “Complete Life Success System’ is going to work for you.
Jacquie, How Do I Know I Can Do This?
Self doubt, fear and negative influences are what every women deals with on a daily basis – and if you are one you will know that. What I didn’t work out for a long time was that I had to really manage how to control and use this fear and self doubt. If the question “How do I know I can do this” popped up in your head this is just one example of what I’m talking about.
A main part of my focus and systems deals with how to manage your mindset and not only make sure you are not getting in your own way but optimising yourself so that you can excel in what you do.
If you are asking this question then that is absolutely ok! Let me tell you one thing and that is you are not alone. I really want you to get engaged with Holistic Directions and discover that you can do this! You can not only do this but you can really reach your goals and dreams and have so much fun along the way.
I Have Used Coaches Before and I Ended Up With a To-do List Each Week – I Can Do That On My Own
I have too! And I know that what is missing from these types of relationships are the two most important factors in not only being successful in what you want to do but enjoying it on the way – they are the tools and the Mindset. I know there are lots of useful skills having a traditional ‘coach’ will bring to you but first and foremost you need to work on what you don’t want and what you do want in your life and making sure you have the un-shakeable belief that is going to get you there, keep you there, raise you higher and make sure you enjoy being there.
In my systems we do touch on some elements traditional coaches bring but the focus is on accelerating your personal power, growth and performance – for women aged 35-65 only. My systems come from my own practical experience and my own expertise and that is what Holistic Direction is all about.
What type of people attend to the All New Practitioner NLP event?
You know it is a mixture of people from different backgrounds – both professionally and personally.
People have come on this training who are looking for a mixture of reasons – some are listed below.
- “I’m looking to make changes in my life”
- “I’ve tried other courses, techniques and treatments but haven’t got the results I am looking for yet”
- “I want to improve and have fantastic relationships with those around me”
- “I want more self-confidence”
- “I what to finally stop getting in my own way”
- “I want to learn and experience Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP)”
- “I aspire to model excellence in people who are already really succeeding”
- “I want to develop my rapport skills and influence others with ease”
- “I need to shift fears and phobias that I have had for years”
- “I want to start getting what I want and living the lifestyle I want… right now!”
What value would I get by attending ?
Wow…. This question is huge and so is the answer.
If you want to join me for 12 days during March to June I will personally reveal and show you exactly how to apply NLP in your life and those around you – actually training you as an NLP Practitioner certified by John Grinder (co-founder of NLP) – so you can accelerate your path to success and wellbeing.
You will learn to be at your peak performance and get what you want, instantly become super confident and break through any limiting beliefs, set and achieve value-driven personal and professional goals, accelerate your personal power, growth and performance, influence and persuade others, enjoy instant rapport and communicate compellingly, build better relationships, and eliminate any fears or phobias to get the life you really want…
This will help you achieve the changes you have been looking for… when nothing else worked.
Jacquie, I really want to get started – how do I do that?
This is a great question to ask! If you haven’t already sign-up for my FREE CD ‘The 11 Top Tips To Getting Complete Life Success in 30 Days’ – the CD contains great content that will get you started wherever you are with your life and your business – it’s not full of sales messages it is just great content you can use in your business immediately.
Once you have done that go to the ‘Get Started’ page on this website and that will help identify what you need right now.
If you would prefer to speak to someone directly then call us on 1.204.480.8667 and we can set up an initiation call to get your started.